Every weekday, I get in my car, possibly saying hello to a neighbour leaving at the same time, and drive to work. I spend the days talking with colleagues and the children, then I drive home.
If I go out shopping, I normally go in the car and at the shopping centre go about my business as others do theirs.
But on Sunday mornings when I walk to buy my newspaper I always talk to at least one passing stranger on the way and sometimes it may be up to half a dozen. They are all doing the same thing as me, walking to the corner shop for a paper or breakfast supplies, or else walking to the station or bus stop, but in a more leisurely manner than during the week.
The conversations don't add up to much - usually greetings followed by remarks about the weather or the gardens and trees around us - but it's all very friendly.
Some people I see regularly, so they are the familiar strangers, whose faces I know but names not, that someone once theorised were the benchmark of feeling happy in a neighbourhood - ie not how many people you actually call a friend, but how many people you regularly smile and nod at.
I suppose to anyone living in a village, who knows all or most people, the ways of townsfolk seem unfriendly, but it's all down to two factors; the sheer press of people in the metropolis - you couldn't possibly acknowledge them all, so you ignore them instead - and the car, which speeds people out of the quieter local area where people do speak if they come face to face.
It's a shame. But at least, on Sundays I get to talk to strangers!
LissaT
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I too have spent the day chatting to strangers. Topics covered, apart from church architecture (see blog tomorrow), included genealogy in general and Viking ancestors in particular, lace making and regional designs, weddings, vandalism, things found on rubbish heaps, antique table linen, hippy clothing and how we miss it, varicose veins and many other topics. On the whole I try to have at least one conversation with a stranger every day, though I don't manage that on the days I don't go out at all unless one happens to ring up.