Since coming to Dubai and not finding the Hash, we have joined the Caledonian Society and have taken up Scotish country dancing again for exercise.
It's as much fun as always, and the group we go to, with teacher Carol, is very friendly and welcoming.
So we bought tickets for the St Andrew's Night Ball in November!
This is a major social event and entails tuxedos for the men and ball gowns for the ladies.
Not such a problem you'd think, in the shopper's paradise that is Dubai. Well, no, actually, it wasn't, to my great surprise.
Ed does have a dinner suit, back in the UK and over a dozen years old, since when his waistline has expanded a tad. So we felt an investment in a new one was justified, when Calvin Klein had a 75% reduction sale. Ed got kitted out in a very nice outfit, for only as much as a normal suit would have cost him at home.
I thought I'd be more of a problem. I'm middle aged, so many of the dresses designed for the young and beautiful would just look like mutton dressed as lamb on me. Satin is not me. I'm tall, so long dresses often aren't long enough. I'm scrawny chested, which isn't the norm nowadays, when most ladies tend to be amply bosomed. I'm also a bit tight fisted when it comes to laying out for a gown I might only wear once!
Armed with these counter indications, I wasn't surprised to find nothing suitable in any of the department stores or usual chains. Well, I might have found something in Harvey Nicks or Galleries Lafayette had I been prepared to pay arms and legs, but I wasn't. I tried on a few but none did a thing for me and I desponded.
I gave up on evening wear and went to Marks and Spencer to buy a pair of trousers I'd seen that would turn my beige jacket into a suit. I bought them, and noticed a couple of racks of evening outfits...
There were some crochet lace mix and match pieces in black or old gold, which included a long skirt and a tunic top. I took the gold choice and tried it on. Hey presto! Evening dress that will pass as ballgown when enhanced with jewellery, that hides my chest and hips and looks elegant without being over matronly. And I can wear the tunic with trousers for less formal occasions.
Good old M&S!
P.S. I've already worn my dress. The girls at work invited me to a Diwali party, with the injunction "Wear a sari". So I said that would be impossible as I don't own one, but I could do long...
Me and Manju.








